I like to read a few tekky culture blogs every day - it helps me keep up with technical stuff at work. I came across this New Yorker article, about a gay man out with a friend to try and buy some weed, and even tho it's definitely strange, I also thought it was sweet, and thought you guys might like to read it. The Way We Are This clip is a little wierd, but read the stuff underneath it - about how heteros are obsessed with the sexual 'division of labor' between gay men... "“Either of you guys married?” Little Mike asked, and Paul shook his head no. “I… Read More

"Many of you may not feel comfortable with talking about anal hygiene or anal sex. The reality is that everyone, gay or straight is talking about and doing anal sex. Just today I received an email from my friend Jenny who had anal sex with a guy…two times. She did not enjoy it. My straight work colleagues are obsessed with anal sex…what does it feel like? Why do I enjoy it? Isn't it dirty?" This is a really great article that talks about one of the things that is rarely talked about - anal cleanliness in prepeation for anal sex. One of the things that has always secretly amused me, when I'm in a club, is the thought of jhow many of… Read More

I've been working out again this summer, and I've been feeling good and feeling like I look good, and as we all know, when you feel like you are looking good, or at least better than you used to look, well, it's like a drug, it really gives you a kick. My body image isn't necessarily the best to begin with - according to the TV if you're gay you have to be either a greek god or an effeminate waif, and I've never been either. Which has always bothered me. Average looking guys aren't supposed to be gay. But, no matter how you look, you look better… Read More

Gay Leather Men Kissing

It's hot, it's muggy, it's the middle of summer, the whole planet is just going crazy, and I've been feeling horny and mean. I want to find someone new, treat them like dirt, fuck them hard with just spit for lube, let them cook me nice meals and buy me expensive beers, and make them lick my sweaty asshole right after I finish my workout. And if they don't do a really good job of it, and really swirl that tongue… Read More

Is Being Gay In The Genes Or In The Heart? A while back, a few month's at least, I remember reading some articles that discussed some Italian scientists study that suggested a genetic explanation for being gay. Male gay at least, I'm not sure if it had anything to say about gay females. The idea was that certain women had an especially strong attraction to males, leading them to tend to produce more children than average. But, some of the male children they produced also would carry the gene for an especially intense attraction to males, and thus a predisposition to be gay. Despite the fact that the womans gay sons would tend to have less children… Read More

One of the side effects of going thru a bad time at work is that I've been going out less, staying in more, and looking at more male porn. Like this guy right here, he looks a little short, but that is a beautifully shaped dick, and it gets even bigger than that when fully hard. But, I feel bad sometimes when I'm enjoying a delicious looking man like that - because I'm supposed to be writing about porn in this blog, and, well, you know the story by now (or maybe you don't, read a bit and you will), I'm freaking out and I haven't… Read More

Well, it's true what they say. You can get used to anything. I finally starting to get used to the new regime at work, the "war culture" of the new company, and the things I have been having to do to keep my job. The people who were above me are gone, a lot of the old staff are gone, a lot of the output and analysis have been outsourced, and so far it looks like they are keeping me for the time being. They are putting me thru various training sessions, for which I have to travel about 400 miles and spend a few days living in a hotel, and they are paying for it all, which I doubt they would do if I was close to getting the axe. Hey, I realize… Read More

This is what I want my boyfriends to buy me! And right away! Supposedly this new gizmo produces the most intense male orgasms ever; it's the perfect gay sex toy. Here's more info about the "Aneros" prostate massager from the Male G Spot website. From the website: "What is the Aneros? The Aneros MGX Massager is a patented anal sphincter-driven, prostate-perineum massager. With the Aneros, men can achieve strong continuous, non-ejaculatory,… Read More

Here's a gay sex pic that reminds me a lot of my life these days - in this picture, I'm the guy getting butt fucked. This is part of the reason I was asking about the best gay condoms the other day, I've been having a lot of anal lately, both fucking, and, oh, especially delicious, being well fucked. The guy I am seeing these days is a great match for me, in size and attitude, so I'm getting to be the top and bottom about equally, and damn damn damn it is feeling so good! I'm usually the top, because I'm a bigger guy, and I attract bottoms, but it's nice to have both.… Read More

I have had the most terrible case of writers block, you don't even want to know. I feel bad because I had said I would be able to write, but these past few weeks I have just been so caught up in everyday dramas and tasks that writing seemed like an impossibility. Anyway, I'll try to write more often, but I make no promises- because when I do, the promise itself seems to repress my readiness to write. Anyway, I've been thinking lately about the question of condoms. Everybody keeps hoping a cure or vaccination against HIV and AIDS is right around the corner, and maybe it is, but for now it's condoms, condoms, condoms all day long. I know it's crazy… Read More