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Gay Sex Life and Gay Porn, an XXX-rated Gay Man’s Musings.

Does anybody here do much online dating? As I've said before, I haven't done that much of it, but I'm lucky living where I live because there is a modest but fairly vibrant community of gay men and several clubs and bars for men to meet and dance, so finding men has been pretty easy for me. My webmaster wanted me to put up some links for dating sites, but most of them didn't impress me much. I chose Gay Lounge out of the several that I looked at, because it's run bu the same people who run the United Gay Adult Sites network, and I know they've been around since the late nineties and have a good reputation. I'm not a member of UGAS now but I have… Read More

What do you men do when you have been fucked so long and hard that you can't sit down? ;-} My beau and I are in that stage of a relationship where we have been fighting a lot, as we clarify our limits and our needs to each other. It's been miserable at times, as such things are, but as we all know one of the only benefits of lovers fighting is the make up sex, and we have been having a TON of it. But, he fucked me so hard the last couple of times that I'm very chafed and sore. He says to me that I deserve it, and that may be true, I've never denied that I can be a lot of trouble when it comes to love. I certainly don't mind it when he's doing… Read More

I like to read a few tekky culture blogs every day - it helps me keep up with technical stuff at work. I came across this New Yorker article, about a gay man out with a friend to try and buy some weed, and even tho it's definitely strange, I also thought it was sweet, and thought you guys might like to read it. The Way We Are This clip is a little wierd, but read the stuff underneath it - about how heteros are obsessed with the sexual 'division of labor' between gay men... "“Either of you guys married?” Little Mike asked, and Paul shook his head no. “I… Read More

Sorry about that guys - it's all cock and fun and fine meals for me these days. I think I'm getting a little fatter. Does love do that to you? This will probably end badly for my heart, but it sure has been fun so far. I'll try to write again soon - I'm working on an idea.  Read More

Oh my god, I'm not sure I can take the stress and strain of "Young Love" anymore. The guy I've been seeing is in his early twenties, a bit more than ten years younger than me, and while it's a ton of fun when it is going well, when it isn't it's got to be one of the seven variations of hell. Being pulled apart by feelings you wish you didn't have. If the sex weren't incredible I don't think I could take it. ;-{ But the sex is incredible, and beyond that, he's really a very interesting guy, with a lot of potential for his future. I can't say much about him, I'm already risking too much just by writing this, but I'm not saying anything he doesn't… Read More

It's getting pretty wintry up here in the north, and I've been going to parties - the first little round of gay thanksgiving parties (because we're thankful we're not at home with the parents enduring a traditional turkey day) started last week, and with this short week at work, and an easy week next week as well, I plan to be partying up a major storm for the next few days. There's someone I've been seeing pretty steadily for the past 6 weeks - which is a little longer than usual for me. I haven't driven him off barking mad yet, and he isn't pissing me off that much either, so I think we're a couple. That's all I want to say about that, I don't… Read More

Is Being Gay In The Genes Or In The Heart? A while back, a few month's at least, I remember reading some articles that discussed some Italian scientists study that suggested a genetic explanation for being gay. Male gay at least, I'm not sure if it had anything to say about gay females. The idea was that certain women had an especially strong attraction to males, leading them to tend to produce more children than average. But, some of the male children they produced also would carry the gene for an especially intense attraction to males, and thus a predisposition to be gay. Despite the fact that the womans gay sons would tend to have less children… Read More

Well, it's true what they say. You can get used to anything. I finally starting to get used to the new regime at work, the "war culture" of the new company, and the things I have been having to do to keep my job. The people who were above me are gone, a lot of the old staff are gone, a lot of the output and analysis have been outsourced, and so far it looks like they are keeping me for the time being. They are putting me thru various training sessions, for which I have to travel about 400 miles and spend a few days living in a hotel, and they are paying for it all, which I doubt they would do if I was close to getting the axe. Hey, I realize… Read More